arushi ,life and relations

here again ..
oh this time again ...
indian is doing again......oh why i am saying indian , world around is also doing it...
may be because some section of people make it beleive as if indian is more sacred only by word and deeds are so high that world is below them
why they do it is something of a fascist mind's schemes, they have existed in all parts of the world.
few weeks ago it was in austria..
when father turned into devil and sexually abused and fathered children from her for 24 years...
and this time its a father in india
he has killed his child girl,
because she didnt liked his extra marital affairs,
and doing tantrums before world of being a mourner...
and mom of child is stitching her lips as if she doesnt knows anything.
this all is happening when the deceased child was the lonely child of the couple.

what does this tells us of the relationships od humans, how should we judge them , by names or by the conduct of character ?
this is an open question to those who advise and advocate blind surrender to names of relations , be it a married life, be it a parental relations , or be it siblings.
let god be the guide.
amen